"We Are a Team": Couple Identity and Memory Loss

Couplehood can be an important source of resilience in the face of memory loss, but couple identity has only recently been explored and has rarely been measured. This paper examines older spouses' descriptions of their couple identity and discusses salient themes. Data come from 19 couples from the Couples Life Story Project, a life review intervention where one partner has memory loss. Using baseline data, we analyzed how partners depicted their couple identity using a series of separate and overlapping circles. Almost half of the partners independently chose identical depictions of their relationships. An interpretative phenomenological approach revealed three major themes of couple identity: (1) doing things together and separately; (2) feelings, shared history, and closeness over time and; (3) essence of relationship. This study contributes to the small body of literature that focuses on couple identity and how partners mutually cope with aging-related challenges.